Tuesday, May 30, 2006

Love and Contentment

** la lang.. just want to share this article that i got through my e-mail..

     to all the singles and taken out there, this one's for you.. hehehe. Image **


Love and Contentment


 Somebody once told me that "Finding the right person

is very hard and very

 wrong.....it is best to be the right person for the

 one you love and start

 from there...

 you'll always end up disappointed when you set


 and define a "right person" for you... and don't

 rush things...

 coz somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody for


 You can never be perfect...the person you love can

 never be perfect...but both of you can be perfect

 through love and prayers, and your love can be

 perfect through the both of

 you. But, no relationship

 is complete without God... that's why we have

 marriage..it's a bond not only between you and your

 loved one....but also with God.

 Our relationships fail not because (s)he's not the

 right person....it's because we expected to! o much

 and we decided on our

 own... let God do the work... you may call it

 waiting time... but while you


 waiting...pray. Let God guide you always... He knows

 better. No, He knows best.

 Love is not what you think it is.... Sometimes we

 mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be

 our last. Because we are overwhelmed with joy and

 romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true


 Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind,

 unconditional or simply denying oneself for the sake

 of someone very important in our life.

 Others are saying love is immortal and can never be

 defined. When we think we're in love the first thing

 we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our

 love for someone very

 special can never be taken away from us. We say this

 phrase "You are the

 most wonderful gift from GOD I have ever received... "

 After a terrible fight or sometimes even a

 petty quarrel we then say "You are the biggest

 mistake I've ever made for

 my entire life!!". Now, how do you say and spell the

 word L-O-V-E? Are you

 really deeply into it?

 Nobody can tell what love really is until experience

 speaks and whispers right into our ears. Most of the

 time, these love promises like "Forever, Till Death

 do us apart, etc."

 would end up "Never" and "We

 should part ways, I'm no longer happy with you! My

 love for you is DEAD!!!". Many times we thought

 after having committed to

 someone and your trust to one another freezes down

 to zero degree "S/He

 ain't the right one. I should probably wait for the

 right one to come." But

 the big question anyone could not answer is

 "Is she/he the right one?" and "When is the right

 time?" That made us stick to whom we are with. Will

 you always be waiting

 for the right person to come and the right time to

 commit? A big YES is the


 Don't be in! a hurry to get into a relationship

 because you can never find

 love if you insist that you are already into it. Try

 to find time to really

 understand your real feelings, to know who you

 really are, and what you

 really want in a relationship. You're right,

 there is no such thing as a perfect relationship,


 there's a compatible partnership that goes along

 with it. If you already knew that you're too big to

 fit into a small sized

 t-shirt, don't give it a try.

 You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you

 have made. If you knew

 and felt that the relationship will not last, don't

 go deeper into it.

 You'll just suffer the consequences and live like

 hell the rest of your


 It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you

 can't make it any better by

 just pretending you still have the same feelings.

 Try to let go and give

 yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give

 yourself a chance to

 grow and give your heart a much needed attention.

 Then you will find that

 you have made the right decision and you made it all

 by yourself. More

 frequently than not, we all act in a hypocritical

 manner for some reason.

 We call it love when we can't leave someone and see

 them crying as we try

 to let go. We are wrong, its just pity. We call it

 love when we're too

 attached and think that losing the one we love will

 somehow make us weak

 and unable to face the storms of life. We

 misunderstood, its just that

 we're too much dependent to them. We call it love

 when we give our whole

 life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that

 if they leave no one

 would accept us and our past. We are mistaken, its

 just insecurity. But no

 matter what the definition is, the truth still

 remains that love isn't

 something you can buy nor beg. It is real and

 existing. You can't touch it

 but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find

 it, but it ! will knock

 before you when you least expect it to come. It can

 make you the happiest

 soul in heaven, but don't forget that it also can

 make you the most

 miserable person in

 the whole galaxy.


 "Contentment is not the fulfilment of what you want,

 it is the realization

 of how much you already have."


Love is the hardest thing in the world to explain.

 It's not something you learn in school. But if you

 haven't learned the meaning of love, you really

haven't learned anything.

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