Love and Contentment
** la lang.. just want to share this article that i got through my e-mail..
to all the singles and taken out there, this one's for you.. hehehe. 
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**Love and Contentment
Somebody once told me that "Finding the right person
is very hard and very
wrong.....it is best to be the right person for the
one you love and start
from there...
you'll always end up disappointed when you set
standards
and define a "right person" for you... and don't
rush things...
coz somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody for
you."
You can never be perfect...the person you love can
never be perfect...but both of you can be perfect
through love and prayers, and your love can be
perfect through the both of
you. But, no relationship
is complete without God... that's why we have
marriage..it's a bond not only between you and your
loved one....but also with God.
Our relationships fail not because (s)he's not the
right person....it's because we expected to! o much
and we decided on our
own... let God do the work... you may call it
waiting time... but while you
are
waiting...pray. Let God guide you always... He knows
better. No, He knows best.
Love is not what you think it is.... Sometimes we
mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be
our last. Because we are overwhelmed with joy and
romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true
love.
Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind,
unconditional or simply denying oneself for the sake
of someone very important in our life.
Others are saying love is immortal and can never be
defined. When we think we're in love the first thing
we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our
love for someone very
special can never be taken away from us. We say this
phrase "You are the
most wonderful gift from GOD I have ever received... "
wrong.....it is best to be the right person for the
one you love and start
from there...
you'll always end up disappointed when you set
standards
and define a "right person" for you... and don't
rush things...
coz somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody for
you."
You can never be perfect...the person you love can
never be perfect...but both of you can be perfect
through love and prayers, and your love can be
perfect through the both of
you. But, no relationship
is complete without God... that's why we have
marriage..it's a bond not only between you and your
loved one....but also with God.
Our relationships fail not because (s)he's not the
right person....it's because we expected to! o much
and we decided on our
own... let God do the work... you may call it
waiting time... but while you
are
waiting...pray. Let God guide you always... He knows
better. No, He knows best.
Love is not what you think it is.... Sometimes we
mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be
our last. Because we are overwhelmed with joy and
romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true
love.
Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind,
unconditional or simply denying oneself for the sake
of someone very important in our life.
Others are saying love is immortal and can never be
defined. When we think we're in love the first thing
we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our
love for someone very
special can never be taken away from us. We say this
phrase "You are the
most wonderful gift from GOD I have ever received... "
After a terrible fight or sometimes even a
petty quarrel we then say "You are the biggest
mistake I've ever made for
my entire life!!". Now, how do you say and spell the
word L-O-V-E? Are you
really deeply into it?
Nobody can tell what love really is until experience
speaks and whispers right into our ears. Most of the
time, these love promises like "Forever, Till Death
do us apart, etc."
would end up "Never" and "We
should part ways, I'm no longer happy with you! My
love for you is DEAD!!!". Many times we thought
after having committed to
someone and your trust to one another freezes down
to zero degree "S/He
ain't the right one. I should probably wait for the
right one to come." But
the big question anyone could not answer is
"Is she/he the right one?" and "When is the right
time?" That made us stick to whom we are with. Will
you always be waiting
for the right person to come and the right time to
commit? A big YES is the
answer.
Don't be in! a hurry to get into a relationship
because you can never find
love if you insist that you are already into it. Try
to find time to really
understand your real feelings, to know who you
really are, and what you
really want in a relationship. You're right,
there is no such thing as a perfect relationship,
but
there's a compatible partnership that goes along
with it. If you already knew that you're too big to
fit into a small sized
t-shirt, don't give it a try.
You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you
have made. If you knew
and felt that the relationship will not last, don't
go deeper into it.
You'll just suffer the consequences and live like
hell the rest of your
life.
It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you
can't make it any better by
just pretending you still have the same feelings.
Try to let go and give
yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give
yourself a chance to
grow and give your heart a much needed attention.
Then you will find that
you have made the right decision and you made it all
by yourself. More
frequently than not, we all act in a hypocritical
manner for some reason.
We call it love when we can't leave someone and see
them crying as we try
to let go. We are wrong, its just pity. We call it
love when we're too
attached and think that losing the one we love will
somehow make us weak
and unable to face the storms of life. We
misunderstood, its just that
we're too much dependent to them. We call it love
when we give our whole
life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that
if they leave no one
would accept us and our past. We are mistaken, its
just insecurity. But no
matter what the definition is, the truth still
remains that love isn't
something you can buy nor beg. It is real and
existing. You can't touch it
but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find
it, but it ! will knock
before you when you least expect it to come. It can
make you the happiest
soul in heaven, but don't forget that it also can
make you the most
miserable person in
the whole galaxy.
and unable to face the storms of life. We
misunderstood, its just that
we're too much dependent to them. We call it love
when we give our whole
life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that
if they leave no one
would accept us and our past. We are mistaken, its
just insecurity. But no
matter what the definition is, the truth still
remains that love isn't
something you can buy nor beg. It is real and
existing. You can't touch it
but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find
it, but it ! will knock
before you when you least expect it to come. It can
make you the happiest
soul in heaven, but don't forget that it also can
make you the most
miserable person in
the whole galaxy.
P.S.
"Contentment is not the fulfilment of what you want,
it is the realization
of how much you already have."
it is the realization
of how much you already have."
Love is the hardest thing in the world to explain.
It's not something you learn in school. But if you
haven't learned the meaning of love, you really
haven't learned anything.
haven't learned the meaning of love, you really
haven't learned anything.
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